What is trust?.....is it something that exists because of blood relation?...is it something that exists between very close friends?.......is it the initiator of every love story? and losing it is the end of every relation in the world?
In social sciences they define trust by a 4 definition:
1-Placement of trust allows actions that otherwise are not possible
2-If the person in whom trust is placed (trustee) is trustworthy, then the trustor will be better off than if he or she had not trusted.
3-Trust is an action that involves a voluntary transfer of resources (physical, financial, intellectual, or temporal) from the truster to the trustee with no real commitment from the trustee
4-A time lag exists between the extension of trust and the result of the trusting behavior.
So if trust is that beneficial...why can't we trust each other?...why it is so hard to believe that everyone says what is in his heart honestly?...
it is for 2 problems:
First: how can we trust people honestly if we ourselves are not honest enough?
Second: even if we are honest enough, how many stories of dishonest manners we counter when we trust?
Then lets think...if we can't trust.....anyone obviously....when we will feel secure....when we will not feel worried....it just happens when we are....alone....we can't share our happiness because we don't trust....we can't even share our sadness because we don't trust....we don't even share our ideas our dreams because we can't trust.......we don't find someone to consolidate us in our weakness because we can't trust.....
In such a world....with not trust....your fear of being betrayed blinds your hope to grow....it makes you always looking around....closing the gaps that something can get through and hurt you......
but....it is you who are hurting yourself.......cause you forgot about the real trust......the ultimate trust....
In God We Trust.....we see that sentence a lot...on every bill...but yet our not trusting souls have forgot about that....do we really trust our God...?....do we really feel that what Allah decided for our destiny is the right thing?the best thing?.......
Have we thanked Him...for giving us healthy bodies.....Have we thanked Him....for our smartness...for our religion....have we trusted Him as He trusted us...?
Allah made us his ambassadors to the earth.....He trusted our fidelity and gave us what Earth and Heavens refused to bear.......He trusted us to make this world better...He trusted us not to forget that He trusted us.......
But as always we went through our lives thinking that our minds can guide us through....thinking that our souls are owned by us...thinking that we can drive our hearts where it can go...but....sadly...we ended alone....we ended each one of us trying to build a world of his own.....we ended each one of us thinking he is his own god........
In God We Trust......
In God the Trust.........trust is not in blood......Qabeel killed Habeel.........trust is not in love...Othello killed Desdemona.....trust is not in friendship....Baibars killed Qutuz.....trust is only found in people who believe in the same God....cause then they know that what is between then is not an earthy relation....the relation is far beyond that.....they are here to fulfill their creation purpose...hand in hand to build the earth in the way Her Creator wanted it to be.........
If you trusted God.....you won't care about what others trust......cause you know that Whom you trusted......will never let you down.....
El Hamed ll Allah for being Muslims...........
Friday, October 28, 2011
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